101 WAYS TO MAKE LOVE WITHOUT HAVING SEX!!!

101 WAYS TO MAKE LOVE WITHOUT HAVING SEX!!!

High school students in New York City were asked to respond in writing to the following questions:

“If you and your girlfriend or boyfriend had decided to postpone sexual intercourse,

how would you let the other person know you loved him or her?”

Here’s what they said:

1. Tell her “I love you”. 2. Hug him. 3. Kiss her. 4. Send flowers. 5. Hold hands. 6. Have deep, meaningful conversations. 7. Treat each other nice. 8. Smile at each other. 9. Write poems to each other. 10. Dance together. 11. Talk about your feelings. 12. Discuss problems. 13. Just be together. 14. Take him out. 15. Tell her “I don’t want to be with anyone else”. 16. Go to a drive-in. 17. Ask how she’s feeling. 18. Sort out disagreements. 9. Give each other a back rub. 20. Let him do your hair. 21. Put up with his friends. 22. Go to a concert together. 23. Give each other gifts. 24. Play pool together. 25. Observe the stars together. 26. Share some of the same hobbies. 27. Kiss him on the ear. 28. Whisper that I love him. 29. Be nice to each other. 30. Give a token from the heart. 31. Visit his mother. 32. Write love letters. 33. Call him just to say “hello” or “good night”. 34. Play footsie. 35. Blow her kisses. 36. Give her a ring. 37. Take her someplace meaningful or special. 38. Have a romantic picnic in the park. 39. Show my affection. 40. Talk about the reasons for our decision to wait to have sex. 41. Buy him nice things. 42. Go swimming together. 43. Go hiking together. 44. Be her best friend. 45. Sit and talk for a long time. 46. Be close. 47. Share thoughts. 48. Kiss her neck. 49. Sing her a song. 50. Do the things you used to do. 51. Ask to be with her more. 52. Build a stronger relationship. 53. Do her housework. 54. Communicate. 55. Tell her you care. 56. Caress each other. 57. Stick up for him if he gets in trouble. 58. Be sensitive. 59. Tell her I’ll always be there for her. 60. Listen. 61. Go out of the way for each other. 62. Go camping. 63. Tell her I appreciate how she treats me. 64. Respect each other. 65. Buy him something sentimental. 66. Carry her books home from school. 67. Never let him go. 68. Take a walk together. 69. Go to a party. 70. Cook for each other. 71. Just touch each other. 72. Leave a little love note in his pocket. 73. Dedicate our favorite song on the radio. 74. Speak the language of love – French – to him. 75. Tell her the longer you wait, the better it will be. 76. Arrange a date where we first met. 77. Watch him compete in a sporting event. 78. Spend the day at a carnival. 79. Eat at a romantic restaurant with elegant music and a dance floor . 80. Do homework together. 81. Slip a note into her notebook. 82. Treat her like a queen. 83. Pay attention to her likes and dislikes. 84. Make sure he’s comfortable. 85. Send him a card. 86. Draw a heart on a tree and put both names in the middle. 87. Call her every night. 88. Hold each other close. 89. Trust him. 90. Support each other. 91. Go for a drive. 92. Take him skiing. 93. Sit really close while watching a movie. 94. Make him a present. 95. Take care of him when he’s sick. 96. Carry pictures of each other. 97. Cuddle. 98. Go to a sports event together. 99. Watch a sunset together. 100. Be faithful. 101. Share secrets.

REMEMBER: The safest sex is NO sex; if you do have sex, always use a condom correctly as protection from sexually transmitted diseases

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on June 8, 2008 at 1:42 am | Reply » 101 WAYS TO MAKE LOVE WITHOUT HAVING SEX!!!

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on February 15, 2010 at 6:44 am | Reply chonega

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on October 14, 2010 at 1:54 pm | Reply emmanuel

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on October 30, 2010 at 9:51 pm | Reply sales bike

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on November 4, 2010 at 2:02 am | Reply Liz

I wish every guy would try to do the things this page says, If so there would be less arguments, tempers, And more Thoughts on how to show her I’ll be there more offten then anyone else.

Over these years Relationship have became about Girls looks their Personality. And of course SEX!

Most guys only look for a girl who will jump on it anywhere at anytime, Those guys think their luck. Witch they might be but the guys who have the girls who really care and think the world of them Are the lucky ones.
Guys just dont know how much girls stress over relationships.

All girls want is to know someone actually wants them to love them for who they are not what they can do!
on November 20, 2010 at 10:37 am | Reply faith

if all this could be true to a lovers who met each other then the lovers love could last forever.
- on November 20, 2010 at 10:53 am | Reply cindylellis
  
  Agreed!
on April 24, 2011 at 5:05 am | Reply tabi

ive dated several guys all of which were only interested in sex. but i found one that dont care about that. and as i was reading this i noticed that so many of these things weve done. and it really makes me happy to know that. and i hope everyone in the world finds a love like ours! its the best thing i have ever expeirenced and ik theres someone out there for everyone! if i found love ik u can!
on April 28, 2011 at 4:52 am | Reply Ammaarah

Thanx 4 making my love life so fun and romantice my boyfriend loves me even more now that i have tryed all this 101 ways …this is even better than having sex:-)
on August 25, 2011 at 6:29 pm | Reply uchenna

i really love this publication..wish i can find such love devoid of sex…
- on February 15, 2013 at 9:06 pm | Reply Rita
  
  Iam impressed by this.i had tried about 70% of this ideal but still my boyfriend left me after 6year of relationship because i refused to have intercourse before my wedding night.so what should i do now?
  - on February 15, 2013 at 9:34 pm CL Ellis
    
    Rita, You don’t say how old you are or why you waited 6 years. I would suggest that you spend some time NOT being in a relationship and find out who you are and what is important to you in a relationship. Honestly, if you are over the age of 25, I’m amazed that it took 6 years for one of you to decide to break up. Let us know if you find some answers.
on October 14, 2011 at 12:03 am | Reply dimple

wish to have one … but the points are wonderful!
on November 18, 2011 at 1:57 am | Reply Erin

still single but great ideas
on November 19, 2011 at 4:21 pm | Reply Afolabi

Nice one
on December 12, 2011 at 4:13 pm | Reply Tyisha Norman

Something EVERYONE NEEDS to know!!!!
on December 28, 2011 at 5:34 pm | Reply srikanth

these all works in only one thing i.e “TRUE LOVE”
!!!!!
on February 17, 2012 at 8:40 am | Reply Tamirat Balcha

THANK YOU!…
This way of spending a romantic time with our loved one made me to understand more about safest way of expressing deep mutual LOVE!!!
THANK YOU again…
on February 25, 2012 at 1:04 pm | Reply BOSAN

I’m in love with my friend but i dont know how to tell her. “pls i need ur advice”
- on February 25, 2012 at 1:18 pm | Reply cindylellis
  
  I seldom give or charge for advice. Unless that is the agreed upon arrangement because folks usually have the answers themselves. I do, however, ask questions for others to consider. Like: Why don’t you tell her? What are you afraid of? What is the ‘worst case scenario’ connected to the last answer? How likely is it for the ‘worst case scenario’ to come true? What would you be able to do if it did? WHY HER?
  Now you have all the information you need to decide what you will do next. Get back to me.
on May 16, 2012 at 11:54 am | Reply korede

nice, good & interesting
on May 20, 2012 at 2:22 pm | Reply jummy

itx really wat young youth ought to knw!
on June 10, 2012 at 7:44 am | Reply amest

tnks
on June 25, 2012 at 9:33 pm | Reply Pac leonard

Me like dis mehn
on July 2, 2012 at 10:50 am | Reply peach

Nice write up
on September 15, 2012 at 12:41 pm | Reply Ij

Gud
on February 18, 2013 at 10:41 pm | Reply samantha

I really liked reading about these as it shows love in more ways than just one! Thankyou:D
on June 24, 2013 at 7:11 pm | Reply lezy

those are really helpful thank you a lot for those sweet tips
on July 2, 2013 at 3:24 pm | Reply winny

Nice one!I love it
on November 26, 2013 at 11:21 am | Reply Roy

It is right way for love.
on January 9, 2014 at 11:59 pm | Reply Prettygirl cherry lips

Wow wish my boyfriend could see this I am dying to get a photo from him the bad thing is we are having a relationship but my mom has always embarrassed him and threatened him but he neither I want to break up with each other wat can I do
on February 15, 2014 at 1:16 pm | Reply Saheed mariam

Very lovely
on May 1, 2014 at 10:53 am | Reply Rene bier

Love it
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[…] REMEMBER: The safest sex is NO sex; if you do have sex, always use a condom correctly as protection from sexually transmitted diseases. […]
on July 20, 2014 at 12:11 am | Reply beulah

wooow am pleased to hear that cause,as i am a teen am afraid to have sex but i still want to show my bf that i love him